We have all been around someone who absolutely challenged your emotions. You may have felt anxious due to their high level of anger or anxiety…or you might have felt depleted because of their repeated negativity. Either way, your spirit reacted and your defenses were heightened. It is at these times when we become challenged in our reactions. If we are not careful…we can react without thought. This may mean lashing back with improper words or actions. In many cases…if we have spoken irrationally or acted improperly…we immediately feel regret. As flesh on this earth, we will inevitably face these fleshly emotions. We cannot possibly be perfect…there is no such thing. Even Jesus became angry. The key to facing these life situations is how we learn to control our reactions. We can train ourselves to withhold our immediate actions, words, or thoughts. This is done through spiritual strengthening, by prayer and surrender. Each day we have the opportunity to pray. We can surrender our thoughts, actions, and reactions on a daily basis. By asking God to help you…God will reveal His power in you…by giving you self control. Ask Jesus to help guide your spirit throughout the day. As you grow in your spiritual walk, your spirit will be filled with the compassion of Jesus. You will begin handling more of life’s challenging situations…with patience, love and gentleness.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. GALATIANS 5:22-23
But since we belong to the day, let us be self-controlled, putting on faith and love as a breastplate, and the hope of salvation as a helmet. For God did not appoint us to suffer wrath but to receive salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ. He died for us so that, whether we are awake or asleep, we may live together with Him. Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing. 1 THESSALONIANS 5:8-11
God is with us.